Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Homeschooling An Only Child–The Good

Homeschooling An Only Child

If you are new to this series, you can see the first post here.  I, again, just want to say this is intended to both be an encouraging series for homeschoolers of an only child as well as give other families insight into what it’s like in our shoes! 

There are some amazing benefits of homeschooling an only child!  I wanted to start this series off on a positive (and a light) note!

Here are a few of the fun things about homeschooling an only:

  • When your child finishes up their work for the day.. everyone is done!
  • All of your children have the same learning style
  • You can’t compare them unintentionally with a sibling
  • You only have to buy one set of workbooks
  • Field trips cost a whole lot less
  • They can be involved in more events because you aren’t splitting your time driving everyone someplace
  • You can sit and work through each problem with the child
  • You don’t miss a weakness because you were helping someone else
  • They don’t have to wait their turn to get help with something
  • The student doesn’t have anyone distracting them from their work
  • They have their choice of places to do school work
  • When your only child sleeps in, the whole house is quite
  • You can sell your curriculum as soon as you are done with it

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There are some more important benefits to homeschooling as well.  One of the things I am really thankful for is the ability to focus on character issues as they arise.  Not that you can’t do that if you have more than one child; however, it can become challenging to focus on a character issue for each child.  Sometimes the squeaky wheel gets the grease and other things get overlooked. 

If your child wants to learn about a certain topic it is very easy to add that in or replace something to add it in.  I firmly believe if they are interested in something they can dig deep in that subject and become an expert in no time.

An only child’s ability to entertain themselves is pretty astounding.  That is not to say they use it all the time!  However, Sammy can often find something to entertain himself with and be gone for long stretches of time!

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You don’t have to schedule one on one time with you child.  That doesn’t mean you get out of doing the special one on one dates, but you don’t have to figure out how to fit them all into the schedule!  This really helps build the deep bonds between the child and the parents!  I realize that as we hit the teen years the bond won’t seem as tight, but, hopefully, pouring into our only child now will help keep the relationship strong through the teen years.

Next week I will be writing about the challenges of homeschooling an only and how to overcome them.  If there is anything you would like for me to cover in the topic, let me know; I would be glad to do so.

Monday, June 15, 2015

Sammy’s 8th Birthday

Way back in April Sammy turned 8!  We had a fun weekend celebrating him and doing lots of partying!  We started the birthday weekend off with a friend party at Pump It Up (a bounce house place).  Here everyone is yelling Happy Birthday to Sammy:

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Sammy going down the huge slide:

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The theme of the party was Star Wars so he was sure to wear his Star Wars shirt!  He gave the slide two thumbs up (there was a lot of pictures like that, that weekend):

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Blowing out the candle:

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Pizza and Vader-ade followed by cupcakes.. even better when you are sitting next to your cousin:

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Present time in the huge thrown:

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The next morning was Sammy’s actual birthday… so he got to open presents from us before heading off to his cousin’s birthday party (she was born almost exactly two years later):

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We gave Sammy a Kiwi Crate subscription for the year.. he was super pumped about that gift:

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The next day we had family over to celebrate with Sammy.  Of course we had to have more birthday cupcakes:

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I had to use a lot of food coloring to make them look like light sabers.  hehe this might be my favorite picture from Sammy’s birthday:

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Opening presents:

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He has had so much fun with these:

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Star Wars figures are always a hit:

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Sammy at eight:

  • funny
  • energetic
  • loves to read
  • LOVES Legos
  • talkative
  • caring
  • a big helper
  • loves to play with kids and be around people
  • still loves animals and is very compassionate with them
  • 4’1” tall and 58 lbs.
  • bright

Friday, June 12, 2015

Photo Dump - May

 

Water balloon rainbow.. summer fun at it’s best:

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Sammy learned a new trick:

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Sammy and I took up a new hobby!  Geocaching!  We have had a lot of fun:

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Sammy selfies:

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We took Peach for a little car ride to visit Grandma and she thought she should drive after Tim ran into the grocery store:

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Back in April we found out that Yoshi had torn his cruciate ligament (hind knee) and they thought he would need surgery.  After a lot of rest we were told he was doing so well we wouldn’t need to do surgery!

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Movie and a snack and a couple of dogs (notice that Tipsy never wants to be in on these cuddle sessions):

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Mommy Sammy date night:

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We are done with second grade.. We celebrated with a little summer fun:

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Nicia came over for some more game night fun!  Dominion (affiliate link) for the win.. but we also played some Forbidden Island (affiliate link)!

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This stinker was having some chest pain and a racing heart.. for those that don’t follow me on Instagram we just meet with the cardiologist and he is totally fine!

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Tubing fun with Uncle Chris.. this is also the last ride on that tube.. it popped in the middle of their ride:

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We meet some friends at a local river for some fun:

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We went to a local university for a children’s theater production.. Sammy loved it and can’t wait to see the next one later this month!

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Sammy has been improving dramatically over the course of the season.  He really wanted to earn the game ball and was finally able to do that.  He had his best game of his life with a double, two singles, and 5  R.B.I.s

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Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Homeschooling an Only Child

Homeschooling An Only Child

We didn’t set out to have an only child.  When Tim and I were dating, we talked about children and were both in agreement that we wanted to have 3 or 4 children.  That was our plan; however, God had something different in store for us.  This doesn’t mean we will always have an only child, but currently that seems to be how things are unfolding.  So I am embracing (sometimes not very happily) this plan and making the best of it.

Homeschooling an only child is certainly unusual in the homeschooling community.  I wanted to share some of our experience with it:  the good, the bad, and the different.  This series is not intended to step on anyone's toes or provide insight into how every homeschool mom of an “only” feels.  It is, however, a little glimpse into our days and what makes us, us. 

This will definitely be a vulnerable series of posts for me.  I hope it encourages other homeschool moms of “onlys” that they are not alone.  I also hope it allows other homeschool moms to see a little of what it is like in our shoes so that they can be better equipped to encourage the homeschool families of “onlys” and be a support system for them.

If there is anything you would like me to cover in this series, I would love to hear from you and will do my best to include it!

Friday, June 5, 2015

Photo Dump–April

 

Easter bowl full of fun stuff:

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Fishing at the lake on Easter.. I don’t think it gets any better than that: 2015-04-05 15.36.20

A family picture at the lake on a beautiful Easter Sunday:

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Sammy is playing baseball again this year and his team is the storm.. I love their hats:

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Puppy snuggles:

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At Sammy’s first game he got to be catcher.. He had never don’t this before so his form wasn’t the greatest.  But as the season has gone on he has improved drastically:

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For my birthday Tim and I got away for a little while and went to dinner and a small concert at a local college:

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I am going to miss the days:

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Pre-crown

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Post crown:

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Beautiful beautiful MP3 audio books and a Where’s Waldo book make for a quite morning:

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Homeschool PE and the spring:

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Improved form:

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My army of storm trooper goodie bags for Sammy’s birthday party:

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I was quitely working at the kitchen table while Sammy was at co-op and I looked around for all of the dogs and couldn’t fine Peach.. Until I looked on the couch!! I couldn’t believe she got up there while I was home:

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Post Sammy’s birthday party we hit up Texas Roadhouse.. I think the cupcake and soda hit him:

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Fun puzzle from Sammy’s grandparents (it is 2 sided):

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Tim and I went away in May for our anniversary.  When we told Sammy about the trip he was a little sad that he wasn’t going to see us for a week so we told him we could facetime while we were gone.  So he wanted to practice and these were the CRAZY faces he was making at me:

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For Sammy’s birthday we got him a Kiwi Crate subscription and he got his first one in the mail and loved every second of making the projects:

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Orthodontist appointment… Sammy gave it a thumbs up and thumbs down!  Sammy looks so big in this picture!  We are waiting for some more adult teeth to surface and see how many baby teeth we have to pull to help create some space in his overcrowded mouth:

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Rainy day fun (top left and around clockwise) a fun game from my sister, more Kiwi Crate fun, dominoes, adult coloring book, and dominoes and marble run:

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